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[quote=Anonymous]I had an intellectual connection and no emotional connection with my ex.

Intellectual, spiritual, emotional and physical connection being compatible with your partner are ideal. Reality? All couples don’t share always have the gift of all four.All can ebb and flow over time.

It’s normal to be at risk for supplement in another relationship if any of the three, but it’s better to identify ways to improve any connection that is lacking.

To improve intellectual connection, ask questions to better understand the thinking. Learn something new together, or explore a new interest together. Take the time to understand why your spouse thinks the way that hey do. Where you agree, state so or what you admire or respect about their manner of thinking. Share your own. You have to strengthen your marital toolkit so that you don’t risk slacking at opportunities for growth in your marriage.

If you don’t do these types of things, you can skew the value of external fulfillment and give it a heavier weighting criteria in the big picture than its due. You’re attracted to the missing quality of a form of bonding in your marriage; try to improve it, and in He meantime minimize getting this filled somewhere else to the point it hampers your marital motivation in any way.[/quote]

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