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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What’s your position, and what is his? What are the arguments?

At first thought, my reaction is inappropriate. But you have the bare minimum of context here, which would help in objective responses to your question.[/quote]

His position is that he shouldn't have to follow societal norms and that she's scared to be alone.

My position is that he is a grown ass man and his daughter has her own room and bed to sleep in and that's shes not a baby anymore but a preteen. That he's doing a disservice to her with all this codependent shit they do. [/quote]

Why did you say yes to marry him if you are this irate? Don't marry him, don't even date him. You are not a match.[/quote]

I did not know this was going on at his house until about 20 minutes ago. I literally had to take a breather from that conversation to post here on dcum bc I needed to calm down. [/quote]

OP, the real issue here is your inability to discuss this with him without freaking out. Yes, you are over reacting. America, where guns in the home and eating yourself to death = normal but a parent and child sharing a bed = deviant.

Personally, I think every person should learn to sleep alone without fear. It’s just an adaptive skill to have. But lashing out at your partner in anger over this is weird and unproductive. You guys should consider counseling before you get married.[/quote]

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