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[quote=Anonymous]I sympathize w/ OP. But, I have found that you don't have 'deep' friendships unless there's a need; we all hold back. I've poured my heart out to somewhat I thought I was close to, only to have the boundary lines made clear to me. I've also had friendships dry up, after a crisis, b/c that bond is over and it's too uncomfortable to continue. You don't ever really know how deep the friendship is until you're in crisis or the other person is. I was engaged to a complete a-hole and thought I had tons of friends when we were together, who came on trips w/ us, ate at our house, etc. and then we called off the wedding. None of those friendships survived, whether they were female or couple friends - the crisis/stress of our breakup was too much. Friends who were mine before stayed so, for the most part, but anyone who was close to 'us' - hit the highway. Found out the hard way those were superficial.[/quote]
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