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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'd tell him to leave, that SIL can stay and is welcome anytime, but as long as he acts like a prick, he's not invited. Then I'd look right at SIL and tell her if she wants to divorce him at any point, you'd be happy to be a witness in court if needed.[/quote] Wow! What if SIL does not want to divorce him? What if she has kids with this man and will be plunged into poverty if the family breaks up? I would not make a bad situation worse by trying to wreck her marriage or even alienate BIL so much that there are rifts in the family. I would be a champion of my SIL in a way that our position becomes clear to BIL and at the same time we would try and play peacemakers and encourage them to go to couples therapy. DH would certainly talk to BIL and steer him towards being nicer to SIL and children. [/quote] Play peacemaker are you on meth?[/quote]
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