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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's why I'm asking, I want to see if I'm being unreasonable. Personally, I feel somewhat more centered knowing where my kid is.. [/quote]

You need to get over it. If he's with your ex, that's where your kid is. You have no control over it.

[quote=Anonymous]If there's an emergency, I know where to go and what to do. [/quote]

Again, you need to get over it. If there's an emergency, your ex will handle it. You have no control over it.

[quote=Anonymous] It could be because I also just don't trust my ex. [/quote]

This is the real problem. And again... [i]you need to get over it[/i]. You cannot control where your ex is when he's with your child, or what he does.

[quote=Anonymous]Yet somehow, not being aware of my kid's surroundings and environment worry me. So I feel safer knowing where he is and if his plane landed, etc. [/quote]

I recommend therapy, massages, meditation, and bath salts.[/quote]

I agree with all of this. Both need to allow the child to visit the other without interference. When the child is with her she need not report anything to her ex.

OP should make sure child has a cell phone. That way she can communicate solely with child.

Otherwise, both exes need to move on imo.[/quote]
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I don’t know that the phone is a good idea.  This might give the OP the green light to pepper her DC whenever OP wants.  And, that’s inappropriate imo considering she’s going to be imposing on her DC’s time with her dad.  Cell phone might be fine if it is used sparingly and on a agreed upon schedule rather than whenever OP wants.[/quote]

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