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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.

She is not the default parent so this isn’t about being exhausted by our kid. Honestly, we both admit that we are lucky because our kid isn’t that exhausting.  Neither of us have hugely stressful jobs.   We have both commented many times that we feel lucky for the rhythm of our life.

Sorry for the length of my original post.  I don’t really talk about this, so writing it all out was useful.

[b]Sex = 2 or 3 times/year.[/b]   Used to be much more frequently.  Every day for a while and then once or twice a week and the. Slowly tapered.

I agree that I seem needy.  But when I express no needs and withdraw, then our marriage begins to feel like a sham.  I don’t want to be roommates who share a kid and a bank account. [/quote]

This is a huge problem. Why didn't you highlight this in your massively long OP?

No she is not "in love" with you anymore but that is not so unusual for a 10+ year relationship. What is, is that you don't have any kind of sex life at all. Two or three times a year is BLEAK.[/quote]

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