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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you had a very solid marriage you wouldn't worry about this. There was a point in our marriage when my DH was around 45 and he was working with a lot of 30-35 year old women who were very attractive. In fact one day I took our three young kids to visit Dad at his office - I was dressed like a mom - and I was a bit shaken by all of the attractive young women working there. So [b]I upped my game[/b] a bit without selling out. We already had a good relationship but [b]you can't take a relationship for granted[/b]. That was 15 years ago and we are very happy. [/quote] This is good advice. Up your game. Pretend you are trying to attract an AP and act accordingly. Don’t be too desperate. Work on yourself so you exude confidence and sexiness. Lose weight if you need to. Update your wardrobe. Don’t fixate on your fears about new woman. You’ll come across as insecure and needy which will have the opposite effect. Blow his mind (and elsewhere :wink:) in bed nightly. He’ll be too drained to give it away elsewhere. [/quote]
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