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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The advice to let go of the hope that he will help is excellent. You need to make peace with the fact that he isn't going to pull his weight. The faster that you can view his laziness as an unfortunate accident of fate, like him being hit by a car and paralyzed, the faster you can make peace. Because let's be honest. You won't divorce him. And you can't make him change. The only thing you can have even a tiny bit of control over is how you process the information. View him as a cripple- he is, in the emotional sense- and learn to make peace with the unfairness of life. I did that, and once I stopped trying to bargain and negotiate, and a silence fell over me and I quit trying, my husband got creeped out and started helping. But don't expect that. Be zen- expect less in life in order to reach happiness. [/quote] Op. Omg this is so sad but it gives me hope. I guess I need to do the silent treatment. [/quote]
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