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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I disagree.  I think many people have two or three children because one child doesn’t feel like a family [b][i]to them[/i][/b].  [/quote]

I'm the parent of an only, and I'm fine with your statement as edited.  [b]My BIL has 3 kids and his house doesn't feel like a family to me, it feels like a circus. [/b] My family of 3 feels cozy and complete, to me. 
 [b]Everybody's different and that's okay so long as we don't get rude about it[/b].[/quote]

Hmm, so calling someone's family a circus isn't rude? Thats...different. My family of my partner and I and our three kind, considerate, and well-behaved boys are not a circus thankyouverymuch.
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Missed my point by a mile: go back and read the first line that I edited for PP.  Nobody is calling your family or my BIL's family a circus.  There is a huge gulf between "I don't want this, this doesn't feel good to me" and "You are not a family because what you're doing wouldn't feel good to me."  The first is an opinion and the second is rude.[/quote]

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