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[quote=Anonymous][quote]You want another example that doesn't include misplacing things? The other day, my daughter came downstairs dressed for school in a pair of leggings that had rainbows and a long-sleeved shirt that had clouds. He said "OMG. You can't let her go to school in pajamas. What's wrong with you"? Me: "They're not pajamas. I don't know if she has time to change. It's first grade; they've seen worse". Then he proceeds to berate me while she's changing (out of earshot, fortunately) that "How is he supposed to know what's pajamas and what's not? Maybe if her drawers were organized (They are. I literally don't think he has put anything in them (since I do her laundry) nor taken anything out of them for her since she was an infant (DD can dress herself) and he was just making an angry assumption.

I mean, literally what is happening? It's insane. I think I just rolled my eyes. Insanity! Is there a hormonal thing going on? It's almost like he's being a pms-ey bitch![/quote]

if my DH said something ike that, Id say "There is nothing wrong with me at all, I'm not sure I understand the question, but if DD's wardrobe choices or drawer disorganization concern you, you are free to assume responsibility for them from now on.

agree that this is bad. DH gets like this at times--but not all the time--and I call him on it and he usually apologizes. I suggest in a calm moment you have a talk. Some combination of "you seem stressed, what's wrong" and "your constant criticism is unjustified, hurtful and eroding any trust between us. If you want to end this marriage, let's do it directly. If not, then you need to figure out why this is happening, either in counseling on your own or with me."[/quote]

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