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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, in both of your posts, I do not see, anywhere, you even suggest that you love your husband.  You talk about a series of qualities that men have, and how you look down on women who prioritize one of them (having money) over others that *you* believe are more important.  But really, you're the same as they are - choosing a partner off of a checklist.  That your checklist differs from theirs matters not at all.  [/quote]

Dp. I'd rather be married to a middle income man who adores me and is faithful than to a wealthy man who treats me like sh*t. I'm sure there are men with both wealth and character, but I've heard from women married to high status men that the competition for their attention never stops. There is always someone younger and prettier who wants what you have.[/quote]

OP here. Yeah, I saw that a lot with the very, sweet but boring guy. Conventionally, he was extremely handsome and had a career that was likely to take him far. Women threw themselves at him, even in front of me, hoping to steal him. It was so weird. He said one of the reasons he liked me is because I didn’t throw myself at him and treated him like a person not a prize. Of course, there are plenty of men who would eat this up. This guy married a nice girl though.

A friend of mine also dated/married an extremely handsome guy with a great job. Same story. He’d be asked by some random girl to buy her a drink right in front of my friend standing next to him. If he went to the bar alone to get another drink, soon there would be five or six girls surrounding him. It was unreal. 
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