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Reply to "Does a bad first year spell doom for your marriage ?"
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[quote=Anonymous]How old are you? I know people who married very, very young (<25) and went through a lot of growing pains early on in the marriage. Those people got through it, and went on to be very happily married as they went through the maturing process. The people I know who are closer to 30 (or older) who went through this...well, it usually spelled more disaster. At that age, especially if you don't have children, you shouldn't be getting your ass kicked by adulthood so hard. I think in these couples, it is more of a sign that they're poorly suited to each other or grown-up life in general. I think a very rough first year also spells disaster in couples who cohabitated for years before getting married. I think, in many of those couples, that there was always deep ambivalence about getting married. Now they've tried it on for size and sh*t is just getting a little too real. Many of these people got married out of inertia, even though it was never really right.[/quote]
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