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Reply to "Does a bad first year spell doom for your marriage ?"
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[quote=Anonymous]Relationship counselor here. FWIW I can say that the biggest mistake I see engaged people making is assuming that their dating bliss/chemistry will be sustained throughout their marriage. This is actually a pretty common mistake to make, and because it's often embarrassing for newlyweds to talk about, there's little opportunity to normalize it. That initial spark isn't supposed to last. It brings you together, but then the work is building a deeper, more mature intimacy and deciding together what you want your life together and your relationship to look like. If this sounds familiar, then you need to start looking at the facets of your life that need work and figure them out together. Whether or not this particular relationship ends up lasting, it's useful to have a good understanding of what makes a happy and mutually satisfying relationship happen.[/quote]
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