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Reply to "Does a bad first year spell doom for your marriage ?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No. It means that you are immature idiots who are jockeying for power in the relationship. Stupid and short sighted but you can turn it around if you want to. Quit it!! Treat each other with respect and love and like you are great friends. If you can’t get it together find a good counselor.[/quote] I agree with this. DH and I had a very rough first year of marriage due to this (also some external stressors), and really have a different marriage now fifteen years later. Much more give and take, far less fighting (rare now). My question for OP would be are these small issues or fundamental compatibility issues? If the former, try to let more go and hopefully your spouse will respond in kind. If the latter, head to therapy to see if a resolution is viable. [/quote]
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