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[quote=Anonymous]I have often heard this type of behavior coincides with a husband's preoccupation with something else - another woman, pornography, or other outside relationships that allow him to get away with avoiding the reality of his marriage vows. I could be totally wrong in this case - I am just repeating my research on the statistics. It's easy to put up walls to protect a hidden agenda, but it seems impossible to pull them down.

When a spouse has mastered the art of avoidance, and it hurts at deep levels. My husband avoids me because he is resisting God's urging to change his heart. https://bit.ly/2PL5jC4  I understand how you feel.

Do not give up, or compromise, being the wife God called you to be. Live out daily what you know to be the best method for showing unconditional love, honesty, and transparency, regardless of what he chooses to do with it. Your attempts to reconcile differences may just be magnifying his inability to be the man he knows he needs to be. It is between him and God now

Your "oldest child" has somehow strayed from his commitment to you and feels entitled to steer the marriage in such a way so the outcome is convenient and non confrontational for himself. If you know in your heart you have done everything humanly possible to reason with this man, then you can have a peace that you are not to blame for his behavior.

Have you considered going to see a pastor by yourself? Just to let someone support you? Please take care of yourself and don't be afraid to let someone qualified encourage you. [/quote]

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