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[quote=Anonymous]Wow if she actually is that abusive and he's staying. Think about that. How could someone with a soul do that to their kids?? If his goal is to raise victims and perpetrators by all means he should stay. Seriously that attitude is awful. He is just as abusive to consciously decide to keep the kids in it. I left an abuser and keeping the kids protected has been emotional hell. But I did it and do it every day. He's lying and she's not abusive, he just knows you'll believe that and have empathy because of your own life. If she isn't the greatest mother maybe it's because the stress of life with a serial liar has her checked out. He will not leave when they graduate high school. By then he will stay because the oldest is about to get married. Or he can't risk leaving the grandkid with exW. Such crap. OP you have chemistry with him and you like that and he's safely at a distance and maybe you like that. Try therapy if you haven't already and trust that there truly are good guys out there.[/quote]
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