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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op, let her play what she wants.  Her frustrations from time to time is building resilience b/c she's choosing what she likes to do.  If she wants to call it quits and try individual sports or other activities, then fine.[/quote]

I think this is easier said than done.  My DS w/significant motor planning delays gets really upset when he's last. I'm not sure that "always being the slowest kid" really builds the kind of resilience that's healthy.  But, he pretty quickly concluded that he "hates soccer" so I never had to deal with steering him away from anything.  I think it's OK if OP wants to let her DD figure this out on her own, but not at the expense of her self-esteem or spending time on other activities that are good for her.  [/quote]

Every kid is different.  Your kid gets really upset whereas the op's kid is "just starting to realize" she can't always keep up with her peers.  Not a big deal.  The op is trying to preemptively shield her from something that may never be a problem.

Op, I had a friend who lost an arm from the elbow down as a child and went on to play on the high school basketball team.  No prosthetic.  This would never have happened if the parents were worried about potential disappointment or frustration on learning to play one handed.

Just let your kid develop into who she wants to be.  If she's interested in something, let her try.  Don't stop her before she even tries.[/quote]

A limb amputation is not the same thing as a disorder that impacts balance, coordination, and endurance. Not all kids are Hallmark success stories. And all the research on "grit" is fake anyway. Kids should be encouraged to be resilient, but letting them fail over and over when they are not old enough to develop coping skills is not good parenting. [/quote]

Have you had a limb amputated?  You have zero idea.  Of course not all kids are success stories.  No one mentioned research on grit.  The op's kid wants to try things and hasn't had a chance to fail yet.  Trying to put your kid in a bubble doesn't help them either.[/quote]

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