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[quote=Anonymous]I am on the fence on this one. On one hand I can understand why your husband wouldn’t have discussed this w/you beforehand. He likely thought doing so would cause you both to argue over the matter which he wanted to potentially avoid. Or he didn’t really think that his folks would actually give him the money & he didn’t want to come back, embarrassed + ashamed. On the other hand as his wife, you likely feel he deceived you to a point. Finding something out “after the fact” can be very hurtful for many people. You may feel like....”What?? He didn’t think I was worth actually telling me about something THIS important....??!” As a wife, you want to feel included since you are an actual unit now and would hope that no secrets exist between you two.[/quote]
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