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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband is the bread winner and I’m currently applying to graduate schools. He makes a very good living but he is not excessive with his spending. 
He gives me 1k a month and[b] I usually do not touch that money as I’m trying to save to pay off my loans. 
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Currently we are expecting and so I’ve been working around the house and nesting, purging so we make room for baby things inbetween dealing with graduate school deadlines.

He has a lot of money and different assets I have not been pushy about it but I feel like he should give me more spending money.

I can’t buy expensive things without asking him and I’m usually fine with it but there’s a really nice china cabinet I want that costs
$800 but due to saving for the baby he has said “not right now”

I have a credit card to use at my disposal from him so he’s not all cheap but I do not like feeling strained due to finances

He has enough saves to pay our house out right and over 600k in retirement 
I don’t like this judaxposition I feel sometimes.

There’s money yet he can be cheap. 
Someday I’ll make income but I need to finish graduate school and secure a job but it’s not like I’m not trying to do my part

Help! [/quote]

I'm most curious about these loans.  Are they not joint loans?  Why do you have to use your monthly allowance for loans?  [/quote]

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