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[quote=Anonymous]I know a two guys in similar situations. In both cases women were SAHM and both women went off the deep end (mid life crisis- the women filed for divorce). One opted to give the alimony in one lump sum and the other is making monthly payments. I feel for the guys but is is what it is. I feel like in any relationship there’s going to be some level of baggage and in this case it’s something that’s financial and known. The thing is you never know what life will throw at you and with commitment you go through the better and the worse. If for example, his mom gets sick and needs long term care and he has to pay for some or all of it, would you be ok with that? Or even worse If he gets sick and no longer can work, would you deal with the financial impact of that ? If you’re counting money like this is mine and this is yours maybe this guy isn't the better or worse, in sickness or in health guy. Just sayin. And there is nothing wrong with that. [/quote]
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