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[quote=Anonymous]I would not do it if I were you. My reason is that if you are focused on "15 years of child support" you are going to resent the child and take it out on them. And it is NOT just "15 years". It is a lifetime of parenting. It is college and support if they crash and burn. It is increased payments because they made the travel soccer team and are no longer doing $100/season rec. It is buying the laptop for school instead of just notebooks. It is possibly a wedding, or maybe a car. Prom dresses. School trips. Equal gifts for those grandchildren even if she is "only" your step child. If you are showing your limitations already, don't do that to this family and child. Bow out before you make a mess of that kid's relationship with his father.[/quote]
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