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For men, my guess is 80%+ end up cheating.

We aren't sexless but 1x (sometimes 2x) per month of duty sex if I push for it (yes, I am DH).  I chose option 1 in my 30s.  Here's the thing, APs are super complicated.  It's amazing in the moment of course.  My experience, most women aren't having affairs primarily for sex.  [b]Their husbands treat them poorly.  [/b]
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For the general edification of men out there, if a woman who is cheating with you says her husband or boyfriend treats her poorly, or isn't having sex with her, or whatever, [i]she [b]may be[/b] totally lying to you[/i]. She is doing what she thinks she needs to do so that you'll be OK with cheating with her, and she is rationalizing it in her own mind so that she doesn't feel like a bad person herself. You may not give a damn, because hopefully you don't know the guy and never will, but the chances are excellent that he's a perfectly decent guy who is a good husband and father. But she is bored and wants some strange, so there she is on tinder or whatever...[/quote]

Fixed that for you. H was throwing me into walls when I started my affair. AP gave me the strength to leave. I didn't leave sooner bc I had no selfworth after years of abuse and I was affraid STBXH would get some custody of the kids and turn his rage on them. You just go on thinking all men are victims and wives are cheating whores who will say anything to rope in the next guy. [/quote]

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