Reply to nag vs not doing things right

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "nag vs not doing things right"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH here - I would hate it too if I was constantly nagged AND I knew I did something wrong.  That's double trouble there.  First off, you have to stop with the nagging and have a sit down with your husband.  If he's disorganized and has a cluttered mind (lots on his mind, etc), then he will continue to forget things or misplace things.  Lots of your challenges seem easily fixable - I recommend just sitting down with him rather than leave him little reminders.  Or, just do them yourself.[/quote]

Sitting down with him and what exactly? Ask him not to leave box cutters on the end table and every other detail of things? Doing everything myself isn’t feasible, I already do a lot of it but the solution to being careless about things can’t possibly be don’t worrry honey your wife will do literally everything for the kids and domestic chores[/quote]

NP here, but that’s what I would say.  “It isn’t feasible for me to work and do all of the domestic stuff.  So either you need to pick up some of the slack, or we are going to get a post-nup and figure out how to live on one income, so I can take care of everything at home.”   [/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics