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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here - thanks everyone for your candid replies. Looking back was i guess a few weeks ago when he requested to follow me on Instagram (i'm a private account) and low and behold everything i post is liked.

So there's no other scenario right? I've got a dog for a boss posing as a nice guy that is going to look for something in return for my promotion?

The risk seems so high (as stated several times by PP's) - this just makes no sense to me. And of course his DW is a very well read and accomplished woman in her field so I just don't get it.

What has happened is that it's made me look at my DH in another way - I'm seeing all of his flaws - I don't like thinking this way but i'm comparing. I'm being 100% honest because this is all just making me nuts. We're launching a huge project so I'm working crazy hours (w him of course) so I feel like my common sense roadmap is upside down.[/quote]

I think there is another scenario. He's comfortable with who he is and he really likes your personality and your work ethic. It is possible to be friendly and enjoy people you work with without sleeping with them. If you want to test it, find a reason to mention your husband whenever he's getting chatty.

""oh, haha, Larlo says the same thing"
"really, wait til I tell Larlo about that. He loves those things."

One of 2 things will happen:

You will notice no change

He will start to shutdown a little when you mention your DH

If nothing changes, it's likely his personality and you are just reading things into it. Mentioning you DH will be your constant wake up call that you can't screw up your life. As soon as you realize it's his personality, you will relax, the sexual tension will disappear and things will begin to feel more normal.

If he starts to act differently in reaction to your DH mentions, now you know you need to be on alert and your instincts were correct.

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OP here - i’ll try this to gauge.[/quote]

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