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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I recently started a new high level exec position under a dynamic leader that is pleasantly an excellent and inspiring boss as well as a great person to be around. We’re both early 40’s married w young kids and have a lot in commom interest wise (music, sense of humor etc). I’ve been at this position about 6 months but recently have felt a shift in our relationship - or maybe i’m crazy and imagining it but I am picking up on some levels of chemistry/tension. Lots of texts at all hours (always work related but end up being “chatty”) and weekend check-ins or excuses to join me in cars or at meetings he doesn’t necessarily have to attend. It’s starting to do my head in because I feel like maybe I have feelings too if this is what is happening but I know i’m not the most attractive (i’m ok but do have a 2 year old and have just recently started getting myself back in shape) woman in the office so I am boomeranging from being 100% sure i’m getting vibes to then thinking i’m an idiot.

He just let me know yesterday that i’m being promoted to VP and that he wants us to work more closely on big projects and that i have a lot of future at the company.

I really like working here and and also love my husband very much. I never, ever even considered cheating (or have even looked twice at any other man) in the 7 years we’ve been together so I feel like I’ve been side swipped by all of this the past month or so.  What the hell is going on? I keep telling myself to snap out of it and just be happy i’m at a job i love (for once!) and concentrate on my husband and toddler.

Any advice would be helpful. Thanks!

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You would bang this man in a heartbeat.

Marriage sounds awesome. Where do I sign up?[/quote]

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