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Reply to "DH has been having an emotional affair, blames me for it and his drinking"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Oh OP, as I read your post and you got to the part about his EA and wanting to separate I felt relief that you had a way out! That this would be your escape. Because your situation sounds like a living nightmare. Are you so in the thick of it that you can’t feel how poisonous it is? There’s no calm or health or healing that will come - EVER - unless your DH acknowledges he is an alcoholic (and possibly self-medicating for depression/anxiety) and gets help. You have no control over him, so start by getting help for yourself (al-anon and therapy).Otherwise this will continue and worsen until you and your kids are sick and damaged.[/quote] + 1, and your two children under 5 will think this is exactly how life and love should be, and will seek our home environments like that and work through their own trauma. Stop this nowOP. Rip off the band aid. Get help, leave, set a date to do it and get in gear.[/quote]
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