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[quote=Anonymous]I cheated. We'd been married for 5 years. One child who was 2 at the time. In retrospect, I think a couple things were going on. Our marriage was not great before having a child in that we were not at the same place in life. We have a 9 year age difference. He was very established in his career, and I basically did not have a career but a job. It seemed like this would be good for our marriage as it would be helpful to have one parent with flexibility. In reality, what that meant was that my husband expected me to do 100% of the childcare and home maintenance stuff, while also working full time in a mind-numbing job. I think I was probably struggling with postpartum depression and those first two years of parenting really destroyed what was left of our marriage. I cheated with a long time friend who was there for me emotionally when my husband wasn't. I regret cheating because I feel that cheating caused me to lose the moral highground I would otherwise have had. I do not regret leaving the marriage.[/quote]
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