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[quote=Anonymous]I don’t understand why women can’t make a small effort a few times a week for the good of the family. I don’t get it. It seems like all it takes to make my DH happy (and most other men out there) is to have sex 2-3 times a week. We have two small kids (5 and almost 3 and I am pregnant with a third). Sex is the last thing on my mind 99% of the time, but I do it for him. I even usually enjoy it once we get started. I am very happy that it never takes more than 25-30 Minutes’s and after that DH is happy and we do what I want. If women want to stay married, why can’t they just make this small effort? You want your DH to take care of the kids on Saturday morning? It’s a give and take. You have sex with him on Friday night and he takes the kids on Saturday morning. It does not have to be exactly like this, but my DH is a lot happier to do a little more of he sees that I am also doing something for him. I am not the way he met me 10 years ago. I used to want sex all the time. Now I see my old me only when we take time off just the two of us (for a few days not just one night). I feel bad that i am not who I used to be because he has not changed so I try my best to meet in the middle. He knows I am not like I used to be anymore, but I think he appreciate the effort I put.[/quote]

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