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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Are we talking about a player? Or a cheater?  [/quote]
Doesn't matter. Some people find that one person that's enough for them, some don't.[/quote]

Sure it matters. Some people go through phases of having fun, dating a lot, short relationships when they aren't looking for anything serious.  If you're not seriously dating two people at once and are upfront about what you're doing, where's the harm?  And I've seen that phase absolutely pass.  Maybe it's rebound after a divorce, or when your job is super intense and you can't commit to anything serious, or maybe you just started grad school and are enjoying the new pool of dating possibilities.  I know lots of people who have gone through dating phases like that.  Heck, I went through a very busy 6 months when I first moved to DC, after ending a serious relationship and right before meeting my husband of 18 years.

But once you start dating two people at once, or eyeing other potential dates while you're with someone seriously, that's not being a player. That's being a cheater. And it's rude, and unkind, and narcissistic.  And unlikely to change.  [/quote]
You are just giving a couple of examples. There are many more variations. [/quote]

The question was "once a player, always a player?"  I pointed out a bunch of pretty common scenarios of players that are clearly just phases.  I answered the OP's question by pointing out that, no, once a player, not always a player.  [/quote]

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