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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m also generally indecisive and inpantent, both qualities that will make for a not so good parent. The biggest driving factor was being unsure if I would be a good mother, and not wanting to bring a child that will be messed up ( mental health and drug issues run in my family) into this world. [/quote] with rare exceptions, IMO you truly cannot judge whether you will be a "good parent" until you have a kid. The fact that you are earnestly worrying about whether you will be a good parent probably means you will be one, with your issues running more toward overdoing attention and worry than actively screwing it up. As a parent you have limited control over whether your kid will be "messed up". You can give them a good environment but a lot is about them.[/quote]
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