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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You are scared. Rightfully so. You are also repeatedly jumping in and grabbing the reins. Is the first time you have been in a serious situation that you have next to no control over the outcome? I get that you are feeling helpless, but you need to step back. It is possible you may lose your grandson, but your actions may lead to you losing your daughter too. Genuine support would be asking "What do you need from me at this time?" Genuine support is respecting their decisions. You need support as well, but from someone else besides your daughter and SIL. [/quote] +1 You need to see a therapist. Post haste. PS - Thank you notes ARE THE LAST THING your daughter is thinking about. Thank you notes are also the last thing people that have helped them are thinking about. I have never, ever helped someone in a crisis and expected a thank you note. Even if you write the notes and she signs them, it is still something else she has to do. So just lay off.[/quote]
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