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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm actually kind of surprised by the responses. I thought I'd be told I was overreacting. Thanks the the perspective. It's a wake up call. [/quote]

I am a woman...I Think you’re overreacting. So he texts somebody he used to know in high school? Who cares?  I don’t care who my husband talks to or who he texts. I don’t ask him. He doesn’t ask me.  I actually am a private person and anybody who is checking up on me about who I was calling or who I was texting  would be looking at the end of our relationship. I do not like the idea that romantic partners can spy or ask questions or can demand to know everything about the person they are with. It’s invasive, it’s non-trusting, and controlling.[/quote]

OP's DH has already shown that he can't be trusted. And you sound like an exception - most people in healthy marriages do not consider it normal for their spouse to have relationships with people that they aren't allowed to know about.[/quote]

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