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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There's always a reason, OP.[/quote]

Just because they won't tell you the reason, does not mean there is no reason, OP.  You seem naive.[/quote]

yup. who cut you off, OP? [/quote]

In our family, we have one sibling who cut everyone off.

She is full of drama and manipulative. She is mean and would always pick a fight with siblings when things were low in her dysfunctional marriage.

I don't do social media, but she has a habit of presenting things as "my terrible family" when in reality she is the one who was attacking.

If the person who cut everyone off has a seemingly normal family, and has a drama filled friend circle or a marriage that seems dramatic or where she is always posting what a perfect husband/life she has, then most likely the person who cut off everyone has some serious issues and needs compassion. Keep a careful distance with this person. She will turn on you too.[/quote]

Okey dokey. MUST be her. LOL. 
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Absolutely.

Every time her husband cheated on her, she would call a sibling and work really hard to pick a fight by going really low or making up things.

Family members tried everything to help her...offering a listening ear, offering a place to stay so she could leave him, taking her kid for weekends so they could work on things and taking her kids for extended periods of time when their chaotic marriage was impacting the kids. More and more. Compassion, kindness and support. Tough love. Once people started telling her that they could not keep playing this game if she wasn't willing to leave him, she cut off the family.

Think of all the fathers that cut off their children for a new wife.

Yep, absent of abuse, odds are good that at least half the problem if not more is with the person severing all family ties.[/quote]

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