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Reply to "I’ve had it with the snide comments and moodiness"
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[quote=Anonymous]My husband can be like this sometimes, and he gets it from his dad. It makes him so mad when he acts like his dad because he saw his dad treat his mom so poorly and he hated it. Generally I'll call him out on it to make sure he's aware that what he said was rude and sometimes he'll get defensive or try to make it somehow my fault, but eventually (within an hour) he'll come around and we can discuss it. Counseling is helpful just to have a third party explain how you feel (it should be enough that you do it but it can be really hard to hear things from your spouse sometimes). Go in with the vein of how to handle the situation - we've talked several times about what we can each say and do when we find ourselves in a small battle and even if what I said I wanted to hear last time isn't exactly what I want to hear this time, the fact that he is trying helps immensely (and vice versa). [/quote]
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