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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. We went to a therapist about his Mother. The therapist told us that I cannot expect him to control his mother or sister as they are not puppets and that I cannot hold him responsible for their behavior. She said I should stop complaining to him about his mother as she is his mother and it is hurtful to him.[/quote] And all of that is absolutely true. However, if he wants to stay married to you, he needs to recognize that their behavior is hurtful to you and consider what he can do to protect/defend you from the behaviors that hurt you. You can't hold him responsible for their behavior. You can hold him responsible for his behavior, which includes minimizing their behavior. Ultimately, I feel that this is the sort of thing that breaks a marriage. I don't see a solution here that doesn't result in either you or your husband being very unhappy.[/quote]
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