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Reply to "I’ve had it with the snide comments and moodiness"
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[quote=Anonymous]I would say something along the lines of: "You are acting ude, unkind and mean to me for no reason I can discern. If there is a specific issue you would like to discuss, by all means, let's talk about it and I promise to listen. And if you have a lot of grievances with me or our marriage, then let's discuss them in counseling. But I will not accept you lashing out or attacking me for these small things. It is damaging to me and to our marriage and I will not stand for it" Then, if you need to, leave the room. Change the eggshells dynamic. Its the worst, esp since it doesn't work when you never know. fwiw, DH is sometimes an asshole when he's stressed--since its not as bad as you describe, I sometimes just give him a look and walk away. But I have said something similar to the above--he knows its not okay but I needed to call him on it. [/quote]
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