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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP...why are you short-selling yourself?

The beauty in choosing to be in a relationship with someone is that you don't have to choose between a guy who is sweet and kind OR a guy who is a successful, driven, and self-motivated, independent adult. At 26, a boyfriend can (and should) be BOTH.

And you deserve that.

It doesn't mean this guy isn't just as nice or sweet as you say he is. But he comes up short in too many areas to overlook. Love yourself enough to move on, OP.[/quote]
All the guys I dated before him treated me like shit, used me for sex, left me, hurt me, made me feel like I'm nothing.

This guy treats me like a goddess. He doesn't have money, but he makes me feel loved, special, and freaking amazing.

But yes, there are all these other issues. I'm hoping things will change. I don't like his parents very much. There is a lot of abuse within their family and I have to be there for my boyfriend a lot and hear about awful things his parents did to him as a kid. But he is still living with them and it drives me crazy. I don't want to let him move in with me yet because I'm afraid I will end up supporting him. I hope he will get his act together, but there is the issue of not having a license. And he drives around unlicensed when I am not there. I feel like screaming at him about this, but his dad says it's okay which makes me feel like it's not my place to say anything.[/quote]

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