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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. Ok. Hmm. Well, what do I do with this? Tell him to call me if he gets to the point where he does actually want a relationship ship? Keep dating him and hope he changes his feelings about being ready for a relationship? [/quote]

What do you want?

I definitely wouldn’t do the latter.[/quote]

If you are in the same place where independent of what he feels/said, you weren’t ready for a serious relationship then you can continue to date him.  If you want something different, move on.  Absolutely don’t date him hoping he changes his feelings.  That’s too much pressure on him.  You don’t want him to decide to be in a relationship with you because you are there or the last person standing, you want it to be because he wants to be in a relationship with you.

Oh and most guys have no problems contacting you out of the blue. if I had a penny for every time I heard a story about an ex-boyfriend/ex-relationship that turns up months and even years later trying to chat it up, I would be a rich person by DCUM standards.  Usually, they aren’t about anything or the other person had moved on but trust me when I say you don’t need to explicitly tell him to call you.  It’s understood if you want different things and things end somewhat amicably the opportunity could be there in the future but no guarantees you will be available to date him then or feel the same or that it works out the 2nd time around.[/quote]

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