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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. What’s my life like now? [b] I have a husband - not a great marriage, it needs work but it is stable, and with a decent person, who also came from an abusive childhood and has his own issues. [/b]I have good friends, but I have always kept them at a distance. We have children, and I have read almost every parenting book to make sure I do right for them, but yeah it is still a challenge. I have done some therapy in the past already. I do have some depression, particularly in fall and winter, triggered by recent life events.[/quote] This was a mistake. You should have gotten the therapy before you married and had kids. This is, after all, probably how your parents marriage was started - two people used to abuse pairing up. I hope that you remember to relax and be free. Have fun in your life and try to bring joy, happiness and comfort to others. When you are living this way you’ll be doing better and putting that awful abuse behind you. [/quote]
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