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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I lost 3 children.  One at 24 weeks and twins at 24.5 weeks.  It’s been years but I’ll never forget.  We ended up adopting.  I love my children so much.  One thing I struggle with was the fact that I would not be raising my children now if my bio kids had survived.  Sometimes loving my kids feels like I’m doing something wrong because it was only through the deaths of my first children that I was given the opportunity and honor of being mom to these kids.[/quote]

It’s OP-This is unimaginable loss, I am so very sorry. It hurts my heart and at the same time, I feel joy that you and your adopted children found each other. Ya know there are so many proverbial cliches rolling around in my head but none really apply. Circumstances led you to your kids and thank Gd for that. If your bio children were here with you now, you’d love and protect them. You lost and continued to love, that says everything about who you are. You had no control and we don’t know what higher force did. Spiritual thinkers would believe that your 3 children led you to them. It’s hard trying to make sense of it. And even harder when there’s guilt or sorrow attached to it. Years turn into decades, we never forget. That we can continue to love is pretty remarkable. I’m so happy for your family. Peace, continued health and blessings to you all! [/quote]

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