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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, you want him to have a committed relationship with you? Why?  He seems at peace with his life now and he is obviously not into you at all.  He is not attracted to you for more than a casual hookup.[/quote]

I was just a friend to him.

What would make him think I would be okay for a casual hook up, a week after his wife died or even a year after she died, especially if he knows he isn't interested in some thing more? Why risk or ruin a 14 year friendship, when he can hook up casually with someone else? [/quote]

He reached out to you because you were “safe” to him and comfortable, not because he saw your 14 year friendship as a grand basis for his next LTR. [/quote]

DP.  In your OP, you just said he 'contacted' you.  Now, you're saying he was looking for a 'hook up'.  Which is it?  Why would you think he was looking for a hook up a week after his wife died?  Based on your posts, I'm thinking your batshit crazy. [/quote]

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