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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I can't get over how many people are SEEKING out affairs. It's a whole other level of affair. [/quote]

Did you think they happened as a coincidence. I would think that most guys that are open to an affair are actively looking for them. Married men are very aggressive when it comes to arranging an affair. They have a goal and they will reach the target no matter what it takes. They could teach a few of the single men on how to attract and go after a woman.[/quote]

I don't think most people are necessarily looking for affairs. Some maybe. But for most people, their marriage and family life has become soul-sucking, for whatever reason, and then they meet this new interesting person who is in a similar situation. And suddenly, life is in color again.

I certainly didn't go out of my way to seek out an affair. But if you look at the big picture you can see and understand what was happening to me and my husband at that time and the years preceding it, and you wouldn't be surprised that I had an affair. It's an escape, a fantasy, a glorious mess.

And the person I had an affair with -- he was not seeking an affair either. Truly, he was not grooming me or attempting to seduce me. Definitely not aggressively pushing an affair on me. [b]He probably put the brakes on more than I did.
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What do you mean?  Did he resist your attempts to go physical?[/quote]

No, not at all. He made that happen.  But he didn't inititate the physical until I told him how I felt. He'd been feeling the same thing but was planning on telling me after the project was over (and we wouldn't be in daily contact). I went ahead mid-project and I told him how I felt. He was definitely more cognizant of what the consequences were than I was, and was acting accordingly.
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