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[quote=Anonymous]Man here, I chose Affair and don't regret it. Couple of notes: My wife totally lost her libido after kids came and it lasted years. We had plenty of talks about it. Nothing helped. I found someone (a couple of someones) in similar situations. It was fun, and it definitely helped. Unless you have BTDT, you have no idea how soul destroying sexual rejection is. Having an AP reaffirms your belief in joy. But, always a but, APs got very attached. One divorced, the other probably will but thankfully she moved far away. I know there are a few women who can have sex without getting attached but they are rare. Be careful because feelings develop then it gets complicated. My wife regained her mojo (a little at least) and we are back on track. She has no clue, I was careful, and our marriage is great now, and intact family. I totally recommend against declaring your marriage open. No one will agree to that. Might as well get divorced.[/quote]
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