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[quote=Anonymous]You need to be with someone who puts you first. I do not mean in regards to the kids, kids always come first, I mean above his mother. My husband had trouble with this, and it almost ended our marriage. Once he saw what was really happening he immediately had my back, and things have been wonderful for us (okay with the inlaws, tolerable I guess) since. You need to have a talk with your BF NOW about how to handle these types of situations.

Also does he know how you feel about moving? I'm betting you're acting like it's all rainbows, you're so excited, except you're really not 100% on board. You don't want to put your career on hold, nor leave everything, but you love him and it sounds like you are really trying to please him. You need to stop that first off. I mean yes, there's give and take in any relationship, but yours sounds like you are giving a lot and he isn't. Although I realize we are only getting a small portion of the story.

Either way, if my post makes you immediately defense about him, you may want to stop and think about your relationship. Don't let yourself be 100% dependent on someone, even a BF. [/quote]

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