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[quote=Anonymous]So why didn't the work pan out?  It seems like there's something he's leaving out.  There was follow up at networking events.  She even met with him to do work.  But the work didn't happen.

I would ask him why the work didn't happen.  I would also ask directly if he ever had any physical contact with her.  It's possible they kissed, realized that it wasn't a good idea to work together because it would lead to something else, and then parted ways.

With that much follow up, though, I highly doubt he couldn't remember her name.  And my experience has been with people in general (not necessarily just men) that where there's a small lie, there's a bigger lie.  The small lie is the the little loose thread of the bigger lie.  You pull it, and the whole thing unravels.

But here's the thing: don't go down this road unless you truly want to know the truth and are prepared to deal with it.

My guess is that he didn't sleep with her, but there was physical contact of some sort, making it clear that if they continued to meet up, something would end up happening.  So one or both of them put a stop to it.  My guess is that your husband is the one who put a stop to it, given the woman lit up when she saw him and he (my guess) lied about not knowing her name.

Before asking him, think through how you'd feel about that -- how you would feel if he told you that he didn't sleep with her, but something else happened or nearly happened.

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