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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP - you're basically not married.  I've been there.  It's like you have all the negatives of being married (extra laundry, messy house, etc.) but none of the rewards.  I think you need to tell him that he needs to find another job with reasonable hours and be more present for the family.  Basically, he needs to grow up.  He has responsibilities now and he's not tending to those responsibilities.

You know what my dream job is?  To be an actor.  Not a famous star, but to act in plays locally.  I did it in my early 20s.  But you know what?  I grew up, had a family, and we can't live on my "acting career" so I had to get a real job.  It's  a job I like, but it's sure not my dream job.

And you know what?  your dh's choices aren't - dream job or job-I-hate.  There are jobs you like for the most part, but they aren't your dream jobs.

Give him a timeframe (6 months or so) to find a new job.  If he doesn't by then, move to where your mother and friends are.  Tell him that's what you plan to do in XX months if he hasn't changed jobs by then.[/quote]

Thanks. I like this one too.[/quote]

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