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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't understand why everyone is recommending you file for a change in custody now. It sounds like you already have an order so he couldn't remove the kids if he wanted to. Seems like you'd get a much more favorable outcome if you waited a few months and then tried to modify custody due to his non-involvement. [/quote] NP here. Because when he is out of the country and does not have any contact information for her, she needs to have sole guardianship and legal decision making power over her children. If she needs to travel or move the children out of state or out of the country, she needs to be able to do so without having a question of where the other legal guardian of her children are and whether he approves. If she needs to make medical or legal decisions, she needs it to be clear that she has sole custody and sole decision power to make such decisions without having a delay due to another legal guardian whose permission needs to be acquired. It's not so much that he is leaving the country, but that he is not providing her with any contact information to access him if needed. There are tons of legal issues, most of which will hopefully will not become her issues, but if they do, they are major headaches if he is not accessible to grant his approval or concurrence.[/quote]
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