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Reply to "Friend is having affair - wants to bring "other person" on a group trip"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Right now all you have is second hand information. I'd go on the trip, and if A and B engaged in PDA on the trip, I'd ask A what was up, and let them know I wasn't okay with hiding their affair from the spouse. Has C talked to A about this? Is there a chance that A and spouse have an open marriage?[/quote] This. I'd pretend I did NOT have this info. Go on the trip. See how A and B are together. If it's obvious, then you ask A, IN FRONT OF B, "so did you and spouse break up?!" in a totally shocked manner. If A is going to be this cavalier about an affair, you have to assume that their spouse knows. And you should continue to assume that, because the spouse will know. Do not lie for the cheater. Tell A that either they tell their spouse or the rest of you will. This is not cool.[/quote]
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