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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would have a conversation with friend A and ask her about her relationship with B. Something along the lines of "you've made this my business, so I need to ask. What's going on with B and with your spouse. If this is an affair, I really don't feel comfortable lying to spouse/covering up for you." There could be another explanation A and spouse could have an understanding or maybe they split but didn't make it public. [/quote]

I think first and foremost, the reservation to the accommodations should not have been booked by a new person in the group, what if they back out or something happens to relationship with friend A and newbie?  Then the whole reunion trip is a hot mess. I do think that was a manipulation move but giving the benefit of the doubt, I would figure out how to rectify that.

I would ask if his/her spouse is aware of the nature of the relationship and spouse was both aware and invited to the reunion because you aren’t lying or covering up with the spouse and you will talk about the trip with the spouse in passing.  Just like any other trip you will take pictures and talk about it with your friends, your spouse etc.  You don’t want to be in the middle of anything or by extension signing off on infidelity so either it’s above board or he/she needs to rethink this.[/quote]

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