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[quote=Anonymous]You flirting with other men is completely on you.  It is indefensible and has nothing to do with your DH.   I suspect you are using your dissatisfaction with your DH to justify your actions.  Yet, if you've outsourced as much as you say you have, how much could there possibly be for you to do?

I had 3 kids in 3 years, DH and both WOH full time and could afford to outsource NOTHING.  Two of my kids also have SNs and we had therapy/specialist appointment on top of everything else.  My DH also has ADHD and, literally, doesn't see things that need doing or forgets/gets distracted.  So, rather than whine about how much he's disrespecting me and texting inappropriately with other men, we worked on what changes we could make to make sure my needs were met and he wasn't set up for failure. A simple list is all it took.  I make him a list of what needs to be done (because he doesn't prioritize the way I do) and he does it.  What I don't expect is for him to have to do everything.  I would much rather SAH than have to WOH FT. [/quote]

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